Step 1: Talk About the Move Early

Before the first box is packed, discuss the move with your children.

• Explain what’s happening and why.

• Highlight the positive aspects, such as new friends, parks, or schools.

• Encourage them to express feelings and ask questions.

Children handle change better when they understand the reasons behind it and feel included in the process.

Step 2: Create a Moving Plan Together

Get your kids involved in small ways.

• Assign age-appropriate packing tasks like sorting toys or labeling boxes.

• Let them choose decorations or new room colors for your next home.

• Mark the moving date on a family calendar to build excitement.

Participation gives children a sense of control and makes the move more personal.

Step 3: Keep Routines Consistent

Try to maintain familiar routines before, during, and after the move. Mealtimes, bedtime, and playtime can provide much-needed comfort when everything else feels uncertain. Consistency helps reduce stress and keeps children grounded.

Step 4: Pack an Essentials Bag for Kids

Prepare a personal “first-night” bag for each child that includes:

• Favorite toys or a stuffed animal.

• Pajamas, snacks, and bedtime items.

• School supplies or entertainment for the trip.

This way, your children will have everything they need right away—no searching through boxes after a long day.

Step 5: Make the Moving Day Easy

Moving day can be hectic, so plan ahead to make it easier for your family.

• Arrange child care for younger kids if possible.

• Keep children’s boxes and essentials easily accessible.

• Stay positive—kids often follow their parents’ emotions.

A calm tone and cheerful attitude can ease any moving-day anxiety.

Step 7: Be Patient with the Adjustment

It takes time for children to adapt to a new space and routine. Encourage open conversations and celebrate small milestones, like the first day at the new school or finding a favorite playground.

Checklist for Parents Moving with Children

A move means more than just relocating—it’s about growing together as a family. With proper planning, patience, and support, moving with children can become a meaningful and even enjoyable experience. At Holt Moving, we’re here to make every step easier and help your whole family start this new chapter with confidence.